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Coming together is a beginning,
staying together is progress, &
working together is success.”
Henry Ford
Are truly great marriages & true love as rare as a Unicorn? No, but it can certainly seem that way in these days of easy divorce & epidemic infidelity. Searching for that rare unicorn type wonderful marriage & exciting long term love with your committed partner is a journey with many twists & turns, especially as time goes by. In a way, all couples are the same, two people spending their lives together yet how that love is created & nurtured is a very individual thing. Love is a very simple thing & extremely complicated at the same time.
Where there is great love, there are always miracles. Willa Cather
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love & be loved in return. Moulin Rouge
If you found your way here, you were either referred or were searching for a way to deal with surviving infidelity, are on the verge of a divorce or seeking a way to make your relationship better before an affair or divorce destroys it. You found the right place. Please check out the resources page for more sources that can help, it is updated regularly.
What is Betrayal Boot Camp?
Betrayal Boot Camp provides betrayal, relationship, divorce & romance coaching as well as marriage education / enhancement services to both individuals & couples. It is not therapy or intended to be.
Are you facing the toughest relationship challenges ever? Is there more of a disconnect than connection in your coupleship? Did your partner or you have an affair? Are you drifting apart? Lost that "loving feeling" for each other?
Few things are as destructive as infidelity yet there are also other serious relationship issues to deal with which can doom a relationship that could thrive instead. In our busy world, it's easy to let things like work or hobbies or even just the TV or video games destroy a potentially wonderful coupleship.
It's time to let your life & couplehood shift to take a dramatically better direction. It's time to have a conscious relationship, a more loving one. It's time to get excited about our partner & our relationship again. It's time to learn more about what love is, how to love & be loved in the best ways for both. It's time to enjoy our couple commitment again, instead of enduring it. It's time to figure out what is working in the coupleship & what is not, then what to do about it so a healthy, passionate, fun, connected partnership can be created, nurtured & cherished.
When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet, this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb & flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of time & resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return.
We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible in life, as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present & accepting it as it is now. For relationships, too, must be like islands.
One must accept them for what they are here & now, within their limits – islands surrounded and interrupted by the sea, continuously visited and abandoned by the tides.
One must accept the serenity of the winged life, of ebb & flow, of intermittency. Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Our Mission:
Our expertise & conflict resolution skills allows us to offer excellent customized pre-marriage preparation, betrayal crisis guidance & other relationship services tailored to the unique needs of each couple, to help ensure the best possible results for the individuals.
We can not guarantee every couple will stay together. But we will do all we can to help resolve the issues preventing a great relationship from taking place. And we can help take it to the next level, helping you create an awesome partnership. Thriving together is our goal. The most valuable asset a couple has is each other, yet as time goes by it's too easy to forget that, or to value each other. Romance is fun, but we can forget that when life gets too stressful or busy. The consequences of that can be deadly to any relationship no matter how good the foundation is.
We hate to see couples that could be great together go their separate ways unnecessarily. We constantly take advantage of cutting edge research of relationship & marriage trends as well as reliable classics in the field. We are well-informed & continually strive to improve even more in order to offer a wide range of resources & techniques to our couples in crisis & beyond.
"History is not a fixed thing. Although the event may remain constant, the interpretation is ever fluid. And the interpretation is all: for a grown man will look back upon a childhood act & see his guilt, where earlier he saw only vindication. Change the mind & change the past- & with it, the present & future."
Our Commitment
We treat our clients with courtesy, honesty & integrity. We guarantee efficient, insightful, timely relationship coaching that achieves remarkable results. Please feel free to contact us with any questions you may have, we want to help & are very affordable.
What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined together to strengthen each other in all labour, to minister to each other in all sorrow, to share with each other in all gladness, to be one with each other in the silent unspoken memories? George Elliot
Our Services
If you are interested in joining our no cost couple support conference calls, please send us an email to let us know.
Cost Effective Solutions for Many of Your Crucial Relationship Needs
Individually Customized Relationship "Gameplan" Creation
Prompt Response at Times of High Conflict
Sliding Scale Fees & Payment Plans Available
Convenient Email & Phone Coaching
Military Discounts Happily Given!
It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; What is essential is invisible to the eye. Antoine De Saint-Exupery (The Little Prince)
We are each of us angels with only one wing, & we can fly only by embracing each other. Luciano De Crescenzo
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